God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change, courage to change things that I can, and wisdom to know the difference

In life, we are always at the middle. There's always an option to choose from. And sometimes, the hardest thing to do... is to be able to tell, which one needs our courage to pursue and which one needs an understanding to accept.
In this kind of situation, I have my way that I will share with you.

In everything that you do, or in whatever situation you are in, Do your best to make things work. if you already gave your best, and nothing happens, then its time to accept that things are not meant the way you want it to be... and you just have to accept.

You will never go wrong being at your best.

Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel it hurts you, it will probably hurt the other person too

Most of the time, we are blind by our own feelings... by our own beliefs... by our own dreams and happiness. We forget sometimes to look beyond ours... and see how about the others. How we affect them and treated them.
Just before we do or say something, it is always better to ponder, if we want to hear what we gonna say, and if we want to see what we gonna do.
Life is simple... as much as possible, avoid making damages and harm, no matter what.

the greatest pain that comes from love is loving someone you can never have

We all know how it's good to be in love. All the good it brings to life, no one can deny. But one thing that is too painful, and I believe is out of our hand... is making our beloved one love us in return. Worst if we know that we can never have this person... and we are bound to just watch and love her from a distance.
A love that is not meant to be...will never be